fingers
there’s a place
or a culture
where
it is a habit
a ritual
to blacken one finger
if someone you were close to
passed away
this is a way of making
the blackening, the rotting, the dying away
of a part of you
which is happening inside
visible on the outside
the idea is that
people will see your hand and
they will know of this
and of course
you don’t want them to
ignore you or be afraid
or overload your with unwanted sympathy
but
well
it is
in this
place and culture
assumed that people who see your black finger
will know
what to do
and it saves the mourners
from having to explain
again and again
that they are not ok
that they lost something vital
the finger represents
the rotting, the dying, the blackening
it might be that it is much bigger
than the finger itself
of course
and wait
what happens when you lose the second loved one
and the third
and your hands become blacker and blacker
or when you have no fingers left to blacken
would you volunteer other body parts?
or what if your skin was black in the first place
no skin is black-black
not as black as undiluted ink
but still
the black suffering would be less visible than the white
that can’t be right
would you make your finger white then?
an exchange
and something else
is the blackening permanent
or does it fade away
as the suffering does
but what if the suffering does not
fade, I mean
maybe after some time has passed
you can paint a different colour over the black
if you feel that is more right
indigo
maroon
well clearly
I am wondering about this
the black fingers
I am wondering if it helps
I want to know
how it works
so I ask
people
all kinds
I ask google
books
but it seems I have made this up
or someone has made it up
and I can’t remember who
nor does anyone else
what I do find is that
in some elections
they use
semi-permanent ink based on silver nitrate
they apply it to your finger
when you vote
it prevents you to vote double
excessive exposure to this ink
can cause an illness
called argyria
which is devided into
local argyria
or general argyria
the affected body parts turn greyish purple
in general argyria this spreads to
pretty much all of the body
also I find henna
used for brides
voters and brides
rather than mourners
though you can be all three
at the same time
and then
the closest I come
are dead faraos in ancient egypt
their fingertips were dipped into dye
also
a symptom of the plague
black death
black fingers
and then a famous popsinger
performed with blackened fingertips
as if a messenger
from that place
this culture
I cannot find.